I am a Singapore PR, who has lived in Singapore for ten years. I am happily married to my wonderful Singaporean wife and have re-established a good life for myself here. However, until 2016, I was married to my now ex-wife (also Singaporean) and mother of my son. We married in overseas in 2011 and had a boy, 9yo (born in overseas Singaporean citizen), in 2013. After the solemnisation, she started becoming more and more physically abusive. She had, even before we got married, been verbally abusive, not just to me, but to my children from my first marriage, my parents, employers, friends, and others who would oppose her. The physical violence would include punching, hitting, biting, scratching,…