Dear fathers, At Nothing Left to Lose, we understand the challenges you may be facing in your journey as parents. We want to address a sensitive issue that some of you might be going through – Hostile Aggressive Parenting (HAP) and Parental Alienation. You are not alone in this struggle. Many fathers have experienced similar situations, and we recognise the emotional toll it can take on you and your relationship with your children. Hostile Aggressive Parenting occurs when one parent, often the mother, engages in behaviours that create hostility and tension between the children and the other parent – that’s you. This can manifest in various ways, like bad-mouthing, limiting communication, making false accusations, or even interfering with…
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I am a Singapore PR, who has lived in Singapore for ten years. I am happily married to my wonderful Singaporean wife and have re-established a good life for myself here. However, until 2016, I was married to my now ex-wife (also Singaporean) and mother of my son. We married in overseas in 2011 and had a boy, 9yo (born in overseas Singaporean citizen), in 2013. After the solemnisation, she started becoming more and more physically abusive. She had, even before we got married, been verbally abusive, not just to me, but to my children from my first marriage, my parents, employers, friends, and others who would oppose her. The physical violence would include punching, hitting, biting, scratching,…